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Adventures in Writing: The Last Thing I Learned

Adventures in Writing: The Last Thing I Learned

What is the last thing you learned? You want to know what I learned most recently? That butter IS good for me. Well, fictionally speaking. This title has been mentioned to me by friends, someone running writing conventions, amazon, and I’m sure the universe. The last time when I saw the title mentioned in another…

Patreon Peek: Choose Your Spicy Shenanigans

Patreon Peek: Choose Your Spicy Shenanigans

Okay, lovelies! Remember in my intro I mentioned “some kind of choose your spicy shenanigans” idea that’s been percolating? I started researching CYOA story creation and I’m going to work on this here, with all of you. How is this going to work? Well, once I finish my researching (I’ll share links for those interested…

How to Create Reusable Blocks and Templates

How to Create Reusable Blocks and Templates

Reusable Blocks and Templates are making website building faster. WordPress is outdoing themselves when it comes to adding new blocks with every update. Learning how to implement them will make your blog post creation and page creation easier. But First! Recently, I updated my old posts from the classic look to the new blocks look….

Adventures in Writing: Why you Need to Separate Professional & Personal
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Adventures in Writing: Why you Need to Separate Professional & Personal

Separating your professional writing life from your personal life is a good idea, even if you don’t write super spicy stories full of sexcapades. Obviously, this doesn’t apply to all writers, so don’t whine at me. yes, my feisty pants are on today. Writing Life vs Personal Life If you’re using a pen name (or…

InkersCon 2022: What I Love about the Digital Convention

InkersCon 2022: What I Love about the Digital Convention

The InkersCon Mission Statement says it all! “To spark the open exchange of information and inspiration through author networking and events.” Dr. J. introduced me to InkersCon. I knew I had to check it out. This is the second year I’ve been involved and it’s absolutely fantastic. The things I’ve learned not only help me…

Erotic Journal Challenge: When You Think Romantic Love, You Think…

Erotic Journal Challenge: When You Think Romantic Love, You Think…

When you think romantic love, you think (fill in the blank). While I find certain things to be romantic, my version of romantic love is not what most people would call romantic love. I’m possibly a hopeless romantic in some ways. I want to see the good in every single person I come into contact…

Erotic Journal Challenge: What’s Your Most Tame Sexual Fantasy?

Erotic Journal Challenge: What’s Your Most Tame Sexual Fantasy?

What is your most tame sexual fantasy? My most TAME sexual fantasy? I… have never been asked this question ever. Usually people want to know what’s the wildest thing you’ve done, where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex, what’s the kinkiest you’ve gotten…. Or, what’s the sexual fantasy you’re sure you’ll never get to experience…

Erotic Journal Challenge: What’s Missing From Your Romantic Life?

Erotic Journal Challenge: What’s Missing From Your Romantic Life?

What is missing from your intimate, romantic, and/or sexual life? First, OW. What’s missing? Intimacy, romance, and partnered sex. Am I a romantic? Do I enjoy intimacy? Yes. Just reading this made me feel like I was stabbed. I feel so attacked. Let me see if I can pick the pieces up and give an…

Erotic Journal Challenge: Intimacy, Romance, and Sex, oh my!

Erotic Journal Challenge: Intimacy, Romance, and Sex, oh my!

What messages did your caregivers give you about intimacy, romance, and/or sex as a child? The only sex education I had growing up was in the ‘we don’t talk about it’ category. I don’t even really remember my parents ever kissing in front of me. My mom was pretty… I don’t know how to describe…

Erotic Journal Challenge: What Makes Someone A Good Lover?

Erotic Journal Challenge: What Makes Someone A Good Lover?

In what ways is your partner a good lover? I can’t answer this question since I don’t currently have a partner. Sure, I’m seeing someone, but we haven’t reached the partner-level yet. Will we? That remains to be seen. Do I think he’d be a good lover? Yes. We did get to have some fun…

Erotic Journal Challenge: Sex Personality Test

Erotic Journal Challenge: Sex Personality Test

Queendom’s Sex Personality Test is today’s Erotic Journal Challenge I’m not sure why, but the link worked for me yesterday but not today. I went to the Queendom website, but couldn’t find a direct link (maybe it’s named something else) to the sex personality test. So, I did what I always do: I googled. Here…

Erotic Journal Challenge: Erotic Blueprint Quiz

Erotic Journal Challenge: Erotic Blueprint Quiz

I wasn’t surprised by my results for the Erotic Blueprint Quiz. I’m a people-pleaser after all, and that includes indulging a partner’s sexual whims if it piques my fancy. Results for the Erotic Blueprint Quiz* As a Shapeshifter Type™ you’re the most sophisticated of all the Blueprints. You’re turned on by the whole erotic palette. You can…